Many people spend countless hours seeking advice for problems in their relationships. While advice can be beneficial, it could also often be detrimental. Friends and relatives can only give advice in the broadest sense. They are not a party to your relationship and often they are unaware of all the details. As individuals, when seeking relationship advice we need to remember to put it all in context of our individual relationship. What may have worked for one person may not solve the problem for another. Also there are some problems that do not need to be solved. There are times when a issue could really just be a lesson that we need to learn in order to strengthen our relationships and help us with self improvement. Some problems are created by our own inability to see things differently. Try to keep things in perspective and not make a mountain out of a molehill.